I went to Mexico for the one year anniversary of Kris’s death. I had the idea over the summer and think it’s one of the best decisions I’ve made since Kris died. Being at home seemed like it would have been the worst thing for me. I would have taken the day off work and been miserable. Instead I went to an all-inclusive resort in Cabo for ten days and had the best time ever! My only purpose was to get tan. I didn’t leave the resort, didn’t care to explore Cabo. Just bring me drinks and let me sit by the pool in my J.Crew bikinis! I think it’s the first time I’ve been able to truly relax. Twelve of the best people went with me.
Ten Months and the Holidays
I wrote this post at the beginning of January but didn’t publish it. I meant to publish it. I had it scheduled for January 9th but somehow didn’t click the actual “publish” button.
In hindsight, I’m glad that I didn’t hit publish. December was a hard month and I found myself extremely stressed at the beginning of January. So this is the updated, edited version. The Holidays, starting a new year, reflecting on where I was at this time last year…. it was a lot. …
I almost forgot that today was seven months. It snuck up on me. September went by fast, and it was a hard month – just getting past the six month mark, my birthday, what would have been my fifth wedding anniversary, Kris and I started dating in September, a quick trip to L.A….
At least it ended on a high note.…